Congruence with your stories and identity

 

1. What is it? It means eliminating the gap between the persona you put out to the world and your real, 'core" persona.

2. Self-monitoring makes you seem inauthentic. Women can sense incongruity. Being preoccupied with trying to project high status ironically ends up projecting low status. Would you be preoccupied with what a group of children thought about you? For high status individuals, this is how they view EVERYONE.

3. With congruence, you can get away with anything

 

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