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I took some notes for myself the other day, and thought I'd share them. I guess this is my structure. May be too general and basic to help anybody, but here it is for posterity's sake.
WHAT MAKES ATTRACTION:
PART ONE: GETTING INTO THE GROUP
STEP ONE
OPENER Do improvised or canned opener Give yourself a time constraint (“I can only stay for a minute because I ’m with my friends over there”) Body language as if you’re about to leave Convey personality, smile, but don’t be over-enthusiastic
STEP TWO (you can also fractionate opener to do this)
BREAK INTO THEIR WORLD Best friend test Make perceptive or teasing comments about them (negs are included here) Insert challenges
PART TWO: MAKING THEM WANT TO KEEP YOU
STEP THREE (can also be done during or after step four)
Option 1: Takeaway or false takeway Option 2: Join the group, mid-story or routine, but again give yourself time constraint
STEP FOUR DEMONSTRATE VALUE Use gimmick, magic, psychic routine, humor, game, whatever
STEP FIVE BUILD RAPPORT Elicit Values Find Commonalities
STEP SIX CLOSE OPTION ONE: #close OPTION TWO: Isolate target, phase shift/seduce, and *close OPTION THREE: Stay in group (or return to group) so that you end the night with them. Try to get to target’s house, or get her to your house
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