You do not want to act like you're having emotional reactions beyond how ever you would normally react. So if I'm interacting with a beautiful woman, then I don't want to have emotional reactions that are any different then the same reactions I would have with my grandma or with my 8 year old niece.

I don't want her to detect that I'm coming out any more emotionally reactive then I would in any other normal situation, because otherwise it portrays that I view her as higher value and that I'm needy or that I'm trying to impress her or whatever. These are all unattractive because they're all lower value. So it's important to understand that when you feel emotionally reactive to someone, you will naturally start giving indicators of interest.

You will naturally do things like leaning in, talking too fast, getting nervous, fidgeting, asking a lot of questions. You know if a girl becomes attracted to you, then she'll start asking you a lot of questions. Anyone who has started practicing the game has seen this where at some point your game gets good enough, you go into set, you start running material, the girl starts feeling attraction and all of a sudden she cares. Like what's your name? Where are you from? What do you do? All of these questions start popping out at soon as a woman gets attracted. She didn't care what I did or what my name was 5 minutes ago and suddenly she does. So this is a clear indicator of interest and that's why we have to understand that when we do these behaviors, we're also indicating interest. When we walk up to a girl and say, "What's you name? What do you do?" that is again a clear indicator of interest. And so this is the sorts of things that we want to avoid.